Sometimes we tend to hold on to people who cannot lead us because it does something for our own self-esteem. It lifts us up that someone needs us to guide them. Now, there is nothing wrong with helping people, but when you do it with the wrong motives and bad intentions that is when it becomes poison to our bodies.
When God sends you someone they will know your love language. Wait for your purposed partner!
Following God is difficult at times, and even when we don’t know the reasons why something happens the way it does, we have to continue to have faith and know that God will never allow our sacrifices to go unseen. God will honor your faithfulness, it may not be right away, but He will make sure of it. Maybe one day I’ll get to see why I couldn’t go, and maybe I won’t, but my faith and my trust will always remain in God.
I decided to keep it pushing and not allow myself to get in a sad or mad state of mind because I reminded myself of whose I was. I may not have a boyfriend, fiancé, or husband right now, but what I do have is that AGAPE love that man can’t give me; only Jesus can.